things and people that are pleasing you hurt you somehow..
so...
i choose to be hidden
only time heals
just do not know when.
I finally understood what true love meant...love meant that you care for another person's happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be."
*awwwwwwwww.....*
When you're struggling with something, look at all the people around you and realize that every single person you see is struggling with something, and to them, it's just as hard as what you're going through."
*positve please,people oh people*
"It's possible to go on, no matter how impossible it seems, and that in time, the grief . . . lessens. It may not go away completely, but after a while it's not so overwhelming."
*whatever happen,life still goes on :D*
"And when her lips met mine, I knew that I could live to be a hundred and visit every country in the world, but nothing would ever compare to that single moment when I first kissed the girl of my dreams and knew that my love would last forever." *this is soooooooooo sweet*
"Passion and satisfaction go hand in hand, and without them, any happiness is only temporary, because there’s nothing to make it last." *yea,true true :D*
越长大,越难和另一个人在一起。
不是因为条件。
还是有人喜欢你,你也活得比以前更好,
不再那么任性,更像在投资的艺术品。
也不是因为对爱情死心。
突然听到的某首歌,会让你不自禁模糊了视线。
一些场景,一些气息,始终无法忘怀。
朋友帮你介绍时,你也会满心期待。
但却依然单身。
闭上眼睛吹蜡烛的时候,总是希望身边有另一个人一起许愿。
一些客气的场合,有人来搭讪,话题围绕着你单身的原因。
而他们最后给出的结论是,你太挑了。你在心里面笑,所以其他人都不挑?
其实你自己知道,为什么不能好好谈一场恋爱。
就是因为,你太清楚自己是怎样的一块料,
所以不会再轻而易举把自己交出去。
就像是,有一天你发现跌倒以后的伤口,会开始留下疤痕,
于是走路时不敢再大步跨出去。
因为,你惯性太强,记性太好。
认识一个人很简单,忘记一个人很困难。
你曾经心满意足的闭上眼睛,让另一个人带你去任何地方,
最后却差点回不来。所以不能再失去方向感。
于是你就变得胆小了。
以前喜欢男/女生有幽默感,现在更在乎 安全感。
以前打电话找不到人就拼命的打,现在发了短信没回应,即使心中有波动也可以忍住。
以前最有兴趣的话题是对方的过去,现在会先关心这份感情有没有未来。
所以,空暇的时候,
你宁愿和朋友在烈日下逛街,也不愿让对方觉得自己很在乎什么。
你安慰自己,有朋友就够了,一个人生活也很好。
你忘记了当另一个人男/女朋友的感觉,
当那个人出现时,你开始慌张、害怕。
只是,你并不是一定要单身,
就像你也没计划过一定用哪只手写字。
不过是,既然如此了那就这样吧。
你想要有人一起旅行,一起看电影。
你想和那个人说自己准备好了,只是没有勇气,请对方多一点耐心。
你想说不再需要太多惊喜,在心里等的是一份相守以望的感情,
抬起头来相视而笑,安心的生活,如此而已。
randomly read in fb's notes :)
somehow it is a nice article..
reasons that being single ? or just excuses ? depends..XDXD
"silence is golden"yea,this statement is just so true !
Read it all, done it all, and forget most of it. *bang-wall*